Truth of preference.

And peace and love from me to you♥️

I can understand that going from the realization that you exist within a reality to the realization that reality exists within you, makes a lot of difference. The first one feels less lonely, though...but adding the knowing that you are whole and complete on your own makes the second one feel okay too. I do perceive, though, that "I am always capable of changing anything that I don't prefer to something I prefer", (the "I can change anything that I don't prefer to something that I can prefer", but with a few adjustments ) feels immensely powerful - instantly! And I'll definitely try on "this is happening for a good reason" and "how is this serving me exactly the way that it is?", and see how well they fit me.

Thank you for sharing, and keep on sharing more!😃♥️🍀

This is a great question. I think it's always so useful to us all when we can see or read real-world examples, demonstrating how all of this information looks and feels in actual life.

We are brought up right from birth being presented with so many limiting truths or beliefs and we are brought up to think that "that's just the way it is" without question. These limiting beliefs are the ones that have the biggest impact to self-impose the strongest limitations on our circumstances and manifestations. Replacing these beliefs has the most noticeable impact on our day-to-day life.

One of the most impactful and primary beliefs that we are "led" to believe while growing up is that "we exist within a reality." The world is imagined to be an outer objective reality, and we are merely inhabitants or players on a larger stage or arena. The empowered new belief that we are presented with through Elan and Bashar is that the "reality actually exists within us." This is A HUGE difference, in every aspect.

This is really one of the PRIMARY belief choices because every primary belief surrounds itself with a bunch of smaller supporting beliefs, they are a package, literally a "belief system". When we change a primary belief, the supporting beliefs also change, it's like a package deal. For instance, the belief that we exist within a reality has an auxiliary supporting belief that "things happen TO me", that "I can actually be a victim". Conversely, the primary belief that "reality exists within me" has very different auxiliary supporting beliefs, such as "things happen FROM me", and "I can change anything that I don't prefer to something that I can prefer", and "I can live a life of joy and preference."

When we decide to choose the primary belief "everything exists within me", and maintain that decision, this has the largest, most pervasive impact on our results, and truly allows a new version of a less limited, more limitless and expansive experience, whereby we can allow ourselves to even be happy.

So, using that example, when something comes along where we formally would think that "this isn't fair, why is this happening to me", or as Elan says "Woe is me", this is the next time to muster up the primary belief that "Everything happens FROM me". Then we can proceed knowing that "this is happening for a good reason", "How is this serving me exactly the way that it is?" and "What is this allowing me to do, that I would not have done without it?" With this primary belief, we allow ourselves to use ALL of our creations and know that there is nothing that can be a true interruption, nothing is extraneous, and indeed, everything fits.

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Thanks for the question! I think there's so much benefit in sharing our lived experience to really make these teachings concrete. For me, there are many examples but one was particularly striking. I always knew I had a lot to share at my work place but always suffered from impostor syndrome despite there's no reason to feel that way other than in my mind. Just to clarify, impostor syndrome is when we doubt ourselves despite highly being qualified for a role. Even Michelle Obama talked about it and is common among women. One day I literally got tired of this feeling and woke up and said or realized to myself, wait a minute, I can 'lead' at work with confidence...'I know everything I need to know when I need to know it' instead of the unpreferred belief of 'never knowing enough'. What happened after was truly odd. Within a week, there was a restructuring and a huge number of lay-offs happened. I was spared the lay off, and suddenly found myself in a leadership position. These ideas really work!!

Some years ago now I had an unpreferred truth of being worried about what people said or thought about me and I changed this to the preferred truth of taking nothing said or done to me "personally" with the result that I no longer am upset by what people say or do... that's their business. And as part of this I also no longer believe my own thoughts... the critical thoughts of the ego-mind that might arise... or take them "personally". 👍

How about you Cat? What unpreferred truth did you change?