Loved one dying - what to do
Hi Elan community,
Wondering if I could get your help? My father is ill with cancer, with doctors saying there’s nothing they can do. I’m sad and scared to watch him suffer.
I’ve just read Masters of Integration, and I’m wondering why I created this version of my dad and not one that could heal or not get it at all.
I am allowing myself to sit with the sadness and fears without judgement. I am asking “what must I believe to feel this way”. Ultimately, I don’t want to lose someone so important and special that I will never see, hear, touch again. I do believe my true self is infinite / eternal, but I guess I have a belief that non-physical is not as good somehow as the physical version.
I am wondering what Elan says about death and how we can make sense of non-physical loved ones. I’m also curious what he says about cancer and diseases, if there are any videos you can point me too.
Having read MOI, I know my questions are coming from my finite self, and not my expanded self. If I am all that is, I still want to see my family again. Does that happen? (My guess is that, since there are infinite possibilities and there is nothing left out, then yes).
Much love.
So many great comments and there's not more to add. Genevieve, you are loved and supported. Anytime you need a mirror we are here. 🥰